Sunday, April 22, 2007

I'm still here

I'm really sorry it's been so long between posts. Truth is I just don't feel like posting. I am still battling with getting back on track after easter. I have put on a couple of kgs and it's doing my head in. I couldn't even face the scales this morning.

And to make matters worse my marriage is in real trouble. This might be a shock to some people who read my blog but it has been going on for a while. It has even got to the stage where I have spoken to my children about life living away from daddy and let me tell you it is heartbreaking.

I have lots of things to work through so I will be back with some answers very soon.

I don't think many people even read this anymore so maybe I am just talking to myself. Thanks to the wonderful people who do comment. You know who you are.

I'll be back soon.

15 comments:

CaramelKitKat said...

Oh Tina, that's not nice news to hear at all. I hope everything works out for the best, whatever that is.

Be kind to yourself xo

Leighanne said...

Sorry to hear things are not going well...hope things improve, either way for you xxx

Pauline said...

Dear Tina -- really sorry to hear things re not going okay in your marriage. Please remember that I am here if you need someone to talk too and lean on
lots and lots of hugs to you
Pauline xxxxxxxx

Kym's Challenge said...

Tina
I do read but don't comment a self confessed lurker who is to scared to say the wrong things. Please know you and your precious family are in my prayers.
Kym

lisa jane said...

tina,
so long as you are in my favourites list I always read, whether I am in the mood for commenting or not :)
I am surprised and sorry to hear about your personal troubles, but I'm not sure what the appropriate thing to say is.
sending huggys :)

Tania said...

Tina - I know you've had more than your share of tough times recently and I really hoped that things would improve between you and Steve.

I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time right now, if you need to talk at any time let me know and i'll be there only too willing to listen!

I'm thinking of you, please take care of yourself!

Cazzie!!! said...

I have read your entries before, and from what I see you are a great mum.
In regards to what words to say here, I can safely say to you that when you speak to the kids about moving, just make sure they know it is not about them, that they are loved, because, if it is not brought up, they will blame themselves.
Take care of yourself. Your words are heard here :)

Jenny said...

Oh Tina, I am so very sorry about your marriage problems at the moment. That is very sad, and very difficult for you. Please know that I am a listening ear for you.

Take care of yourself and trust yourself to make the right decision.

I hope that you and your dh can work things out. If that's not the answer, I hope that you are okay.

big hugs and prayers.
Jenny

jill said...

tina so sorry to hear about what is going on in your marriage. Matey If you ever want a chat email me thetroys@bigpond.net.au Look after yourself and those beautiful kiddies matey. jill

LisaB said...

Hi Tina...
So sorry, to hear that your marriage is suffering right now. It's tough doing things on your own, especially when you see your little ones hurting...but it will ultimately do less damage than what staying together will do, if it isn't working.
Having said that... I strongly advise you contacting Relationships Australia and organising some counselling...it may make the difference you need to be happy...or it may just be the beginning of the end...either way, you owe it to yourself to explore this relationship further to find out if there is anything worth salvaging.
Big Hugs for you my dear...this stuff really hurts, especially when we have children. Always here with an ear if you need one.

Tania said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TINA!!!! I hope that however you are spending your day that it includes some special time just for you.

Kate said...

Tina,

I just wanted to say a big HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you for today. I hope you managed to get out and have some fun... just like we'll have when you come to melbourne soon!

Thinking of you during this tough time.

Kate xx

jill said...

Tina Hello and a big Happy Birthday matey i hope you had a great day. Wish I could be in Melbourne on the 5th it be great to meet you. take care Jill xxx

Linda said...

Hey Tina
Happy Birthday. I hope your day has been a good one for you.

Jadey 0:-) said...

Hey hun! This isn't good news at all. I hope all things are getting better